Alice Carroll Josey
October 26, 1937 — May 18, 2024
Bryan, TX
Alice
Carroll Josey finished the race well and went to be with her Lord and Savior on
May 18, 2024, surrounded by her family at the age of 86. Her death has left an
immense hole in the lives of her loved ones, but they find solace and peace in
the fact that she is home with her Savior.
Alice was born in Bryan, Texas, on October 26,
1937, to
Robert Lamar Carroll and Elva Henderson Carroll. As a young girl, she was
involved in 4H and choir. She was the only daughter surrounded by two brothers,
and as a result she developed the grit and tough spirit that she was so well
known for. She later went on to care for her mother and father when they fell
ill, faithfully serving them until they passed while still caring for her own
family.
Alice first met Rodney Smith who she
married in 1956. After he died in service to our country, and with two young
boys to care for, she moved back to Bryan. There she met Jimmy who became the
love of her life, and they married on May 18, 1962. They raised their three children,
Scott, Keith, and Sandi, in Hempstead, Texas. They developed deep roots in the community as well as First Baptist Church. Alice was especially skilled at the piano
and was the church pianist for years. She loved to liven up the service with
her beautiful and sometimes jazzy renditions. She and Jimmy led Sunday School, worked with the Youth, and were involved in the
choir their entire time while in Hempstead. Their devotion and commitment to others was such an
example of Christ. They were generous with their time and talents and helped so
many that were in need. They traveled the world together, served their
community together, and Alice even helped Jimmy with his insurance
business while also raising their three kids. When Jimmy was diagnosed with
Alzheimer’s at the end of his life, she faithfully served and loved him until
the end of his days. They shared a deep and rare love, and it is no coincidence
that she went to be reunited with him on what would have been their 62nd
wedding anniversary. Alice was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great
grandmother. She and Jimmy hosted “cousin camp” every summer for their
grandchildren where they created life lasting memories together.
Alice was a true matriarch of her family.
Many who knew her would describe her as a “force of nature”. She was fearless,
tenacious and faced any challenge with grace and love. She was not afraid to
tell you exactly what she thought, and you knew when you had done something
wrong when “the look” came out. Anyone who knows her knows that she rarely sat
still or stopped, and even up until the end of her life she maintained her
sassy spirit. She carried the torch for her family in so many ways. From
gathering extended family for reunions, to reminding others of anniversaries
and birthdays, to sharing about the history and legacy of family members that
came before her, she was always present and active in the lives of her family
and friends. She was sharp as a tack, always able to remember the small
details, and she was the first to respond with a jest, witty remark, or a
playful pinch or “love tap”. Her sense of humor was unmatched, and she passed
her love for joking or a well-timed jest down to the rest of her family. Alice was an avid piano player, frequently
found playing hymns and songs by ear, while also using her piano skills to wake
her grandchildren up when they overslept at cousin camp. She had a deep love
for Texas A&M, so much so that she recently got
her “sweetheart ring” from the alumni association. Her and Jimmy are
commemorated in an engraved etching in the Association of Former Students
Alumni Center, a forever tribute to their love for Texas A&M.
She was an excellent domino and bridge player, and knew how to make the best
chocolate cream pie. She was an incredible cook, and you could always count on
her to pull out some fudge, chocolate bars, or Blue Bell with Oreos after
dinner. She was a guidepost of sorts for her family, one who led and served
them well until the end.
Alice was also a faithful follower of
Jesus Christ. She lived a legacy of faithfulness to him and to serving him in
every facet of life, and she passed her faith on to her family. She did
everything with intention, always filtered through the purpose of serving
Christ and making him known. She was a devoted member of First Baptist Bryan
Church, as well as First Baptist Church in Fredericksburg, where they lived after retirement.
Her grandchildren loved to tease her about her habit of pulling out Proverbs to
read when they were gathered together, often using the verses as a teachable
moment for them. She also would frequently quote scripture when challenged on something, such as when asked why they had to do chores that
day; “why put off tomorrow what can be done today”.
Alice was a once in a lifetime kind of
person. Her grit, tenacity, wit, and love will be dearly missed. Her deep love
and presence filled such a space in the lives of those who knew her that her
absence has left a deep hole. She will be remembered and celebrated by those
who knew her as they continue to carry on her legacy of faith, service, and
love that she has left behind. She is preceded in death by her first husband
Rodney Hart Smith, beloved late husband, Jimmy Milton Josey, her parents Robert
Lamar Carroll and Elva Henderson Carroll, her brother and sister-in-law, Lamar
Henderson Carroll and Linda Cobb Carroll. She leaves behind her brother, Bobby
Carroll and his wife Jean and her three children, Scott Josey, Keith Josey and
his wife Judy, and Sandi Bainbridge and her husband Doug. She also leaves
behind her grandchildren, Daniel and Erica Josey, Grant and Katy Josey, Emily
and Hayden Smith, Luke Josey, Zach Josey, Reese Josey, Sarah and Matt Wilkins,
David Bainbridge, Jonathan Bainbridge, and Andrew and Sarah Bainbridge, as well
as her great grandchildren River Josey, Jimmy Josey, Brave Josey, Sage Josey,
Cameron Wilkins, and Jones Wilkins, all of whom will miss her dearly.
A
special memorial service will be held at First Baptist Church of Bryan, Texas,
on May 31, 2024, at 1:00pm in the College Life Space with a
reception to follow in the Atrium.