Hurrah
for the Red, White, and Blue Reunion of the House of Josey/Jossey
family in Valdosta, Georgia, April 25-27, 2003! If you were
there, you know what a wonderful, patriotic reunion it was. If
you were not there, shame on you! You missed a great one. The
theme for this year's reunion was Patriotic Family Ties, a theme
our president, Ray Josey, and wife, Janeen, demonstrated
beautifully at each event.
Upon arrival each attendee registered and received a goody bag,
maps, agenda, and a Scavenger Hunt Guide - the Scavenger Hunt
turned out to be a popular activity. Our secretary/treasurer,
Jackie Helfrich, had every detail of registration carefully
planned and her team of volunteers moved over 100 of us through
the process smoothly and quickly, so we could get on to the
"visiting" with relatives we had not seen for two
years. As always her husband, Chuck, served as trouble-shooter.
What would we do without Chuck? He is our most devoted HOJJ
volunteer. (If you didn't make it to the Reunion, be sure to
contact Jackie regarding your HOJJ dues for 2003-2004.)
Friday night we all gathered at the screened pavilion on the
grounds of the Comfort Inn for a traditional southern BBQ
dinner. The BBQ ribs and chicken prepared by the folks at
Austin's Cattle Company Restaurant were the stars of this
fantastic meal. After a warm welcome by Ray to his hometown of
Valdosta, our Friday night event saw the start of what will
surely be a HOJJ reunion tradition: door prizes! Lots of folks
brought handmade pieces and items representing their home area
to be used as door prizes, and what a hit this was! (Swapping
prizes afterwards was almost as much fan as winning a prize.)
Matt Smith of Tifton, Georgia was in charge of door prizes and
he did a fantastic job, handing out dozens and dozens of prizes
during the weekend. Thanks, Matt. After the dinner, family
members got re-acquainted and caught up on the news of the last
two years.
Saturday morning, Ray led a group on a driving tour of Valdosta,
a beautiful town anytime, but especially in the spring. Other
family members gathered in the hospitality suite to chat &
enjoy the dozens of wonderful teacakes provided by Faye Josey.
When was the last time you had a homemade teacake? These were
great. Let's hope they become a reunion tradition too - please,
Faye? Bud & Marion Josey set up their computer in the
hospitality suite & were busy all weekend updating Josey/Jossey
family files, and selling CDs containing the updated HOJJ books.
All 8 volumes are now available on CDs to those people who have
longed for a copy of their family's book. If you want to buy a
CD or if there have been births, deaths, or marriages in your
family recently, be sure to let Bud know. It's almost worth a
trip to the reunion just to hear Bud laugh, something he does
well and often. Thanks, Bud!
After Bud addressed our Saturday afternoon genealogy and history
meeting, a real treat this year was meeting family historian,
William "Bill" Downing of Washington state. As he
explained it, "Your family owned my family." Colonel
Downing is a descendant of Joseys who were slaves owned by the
J. J. Josey family in Texas. When he addressed our Saturday
afternoon meeting, it was immediately clear that he had done a
great deal of genealogical research on his family and was a
history scholar as well.
If you have attended a HOJJ national reunion before, you know
that Saturday night is our big banquet event and this year's
banquet was truly outstanding! In keeping with our theme of
Patriotic Family Ties, the banquet hall of the Woman's Building
was beautifully decorated by Janeen and her team with balloons,
flags and table decorations in red, white, and blue, and most
attendees were dressed in our patriotic colors as well. The
total effect was stunning. The Valdosta High NJROTC provided a
color guard, and Valdosta Mayor Jimmy Rainwater welcomed us all
to Valdosta. He read a proclamation declaring Saturday, April
26, 2003, House of Jossey/Josey Day in Valdosta! That has to be
a first for us, and a much appreciated honor.
Will Josey, of Sterling, Alaska, led our recognition of our HOJJ
veterans and members of the military and National Guard. Several
veterans from WWII were in attendance, as well as
representatives from most American wars since then. (Don't
forget to check out the Veterans page on our website.) Foster
and Joan Josey of Red Level, Alabama, conducted a Memorial
Service for HOJJ members who had died since our last reunion. As
many of you will recall, our immediate past president, Martha
Josey Larsen, died of cancer last year and was certainly missed
at this Reunion. After Bob Josey of Marietta, Georgia, gave the
invocation, we enjoyed a delicious buffet - my mother is still
trying to track down the chef's recipe for Chicken Valdosta.
We
gave lots of prizes and awards at this year's banquet. Jackie
presented the Top Recruiter award to Margaret Josey Howard of
Union Point, GA. Julia Josey (Bartow, GA), Jean Josey Bonneau (Galveston, TX),
and Neline Josey Farmer (Milledgeville, GA) were the judges for
our costume contest and John Ryan Josey (St. Simons Island, GA)
helped keep the contest organized. Winners were: Best Era -
Melinda Josey Haynes of Lucedale, MS; Most Patriotic - George
"Bob" and Karin Josey of Crestview, FL; Best Husband
& Wife Costumes - George Michael "Mike" and
Priscilla Josey Knight of Gautier, MS; and Best Landmark -
Myrtle Josey Fowler of Holt, FL. The judges insist
that they were not intimidated by the shotgun carried by Mike
Knight, but they may have been influenced by the jar of what he
claimed was White Lightning!
Trophies were given in the
following categories:
The couple married the
longest (57 years) - Bobby and Alice Josey of Marietta, GA;
The most recently married
couple - Margaret and Henry Raymond Smith of Balsam Grove, NC
(less than 2 years). Raymond was also recognized as a veteran of
World War II. Yep, you read that right! There's something
about those Josey men...
Most living children (7) -
Windom and Karen Josey of Riddleville, GA;
Longest distance traveled to
reach the reunion - Will Josey, who came from the banks of the
Kenai River, near Sterling, Alaska. How many miles is
that, Will?
Youngest attendee - Catalina
Juarez (10 weeks old), the daughter of Amy Juarez of Valdosta,
GA;
Oldest attendee - Elsie
Ferguson, Bud's mother (We had 3 family members over 80 in
attendance).
Ray presented three awards
and I was delighted to be the recipient of his
Appreciation Award. He said it was because I had been a mentor,
coach, and sounding board to him, but I think it was really
because I let him con me into writing these articles! He
inaugurated the President's Award, which was presented to our
tireless secretary-treasurer, Jackie Helfrich, for all of her
hard work on our behalf. In addition to getting out the
newsletters, Jackie is the Webmaster for our HOJJ website. If
you have not already done so, be sure to check it out. She has done
a fantastic job! A very special award was begun this year, the
J. Edward "Bud" and Marion Josey Distinguished Service
Award. This award will be presented to persons who have served
the interests and pursued the goals of the Jossey/Josey family
for many years. Ray explained that his inspiration was the
saying "You make a living by what you get, but you make a
life by what you give". Certainly no two people have done
more for the House of Jossey/Josey for many years than Bud and
Marion Josey, so it was appropriate that the award was presented
in this its inaugural year to Bud and Marion. If you would like
to nominate someone to be a future recipient of this award,
notify Ray.
Throughout our banquet,
Joel Hunt entertained us beautifully on the piano. Thank you
Joel - you were great and quite a relief. When Ray said "my
son-in-law will play the piano", we were not sure what to
expect. No wonder he was so proud of you!
In appreciation of the fine job Ray Josey has done as president,
the HOJJ family presented to him a framed, crocheted "JOSEY"
made by a woman from the county where he grew up, Washington
County, Georgia. We also gave him and Janeen a huge card signed
by all attendees.
After all of our awards were presented, Matt gave out more door
prizes, and William Josey conducted our live auction of items
made and contributed by family members. The auction earned the
HOJJ almost $700 and was more fun than I could begin to relate - you
just had to be there!
We had lots of first timers at this reunion, and at least 4
people who had attended every HOJJ Reunion we have had since
1989. Lots of people had attended 4 or more Reunions - does that
tell you something? Why don't YOU plan NOW to be at the next
Reunion. Don't let the rest of us have all the fun. See you in
Biloxi in 2005!
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